Author Anna Quindlen reminds us not to rush past the fleeting moments. She said: “The biggest mistake I made [as a parent] is the one that most of us make. . . . I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone, captured only in photographs. There is one picture of [my three children] sitting in the grass on a quilt in the shadow of the swing set on a summer day, ages six, four, and one. And I wish I could remember what we ate, and what we talked about, and how they sounded, and how they looked when they slept that night. I wish I had not been in such a hurry to get on to the next thing: dinner, bath, book, bed. I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less”(Loud and Clear [2004], 10–11).
1. Prioritize- what are your family’s goals this summer? Don’t over schedule.
2. Make Your Rules- Limit TV, video games, set expectations for chores and responsibilities.
3. Schedule It- Kids do well with structure and knowing what they can expect. They also do well with knowing that there can be flexibility sometimes. Make a visual schedule they can follow, using pictorial cues if necessary.
· Hold family board game Olympics
· Plant a garden, use as a learning opportunity, have a plant journal
· Clip, paste and write about family adventures
· Have children organize a puppet show or a play
· Do a science experiment
· Visit a craft store and pick out a project
· Find a community service project they can participate in
· Walk dogs at a local animal shelter
· Plan an educational trip to the beach: clean up litter, look for wildlife, observe the tide, comb the beach, experiment with homemade kites, time the waves
· Have your child find ways the family can become more earth conscious
· Assign your child as junior travel agent and let them help plan a trip
· Get a small group together and go on a field trip to a farm, grocery store, or factory.
· Fill an old box with stationary, stickers, stamps, and fun pens, write letters or color pictures for friends and family
· Plan a theme night dinner based on a favorite book
· Build boats out of materials around the house, using a play pool, experiment with what floats, discuss why, hold contests to see whose boat can float the longest.
· Fill up spray bottles for a game of water tag
· Turn on the sprinkler and let kids practice different jumps and dance moves as they run through the water;
· Set up a backyard summer Olympics (water balloon shot put, hula hoops, crab-walking race)
· Participate in a library summer reading program
· Create a reader’s notebook as a way to document favorite lines or words in books, a list of books read, a list of books to read, dreams they ha
· Create a writer’s notebook: document funny things that happen, dreams, pet peeves, story ideas, words you like, memories, favorites lists, inspirations, mind pictures, etc.
· Plan a party inspired by a favorite book
· Chocolate pudding finger painting
· Put in ear plugs and let kids have a Pots and Pans Band
· Fill a bucket with soapy water and sponges and let kids hold a bike-wash
· Make a list and send kids on a nature scavenger hunt
· Have a dinosaur dig, make a sand, mud, water combination, mix in small plastic dinosaurs, and let dry out in the sun for a day, then let kids excavate.
· Send kids on a digital picture camera scavenger hunt
· Use old magazines and let kids make a collage
· Have a home spa (manicures, pedicures, yoga to nature music)
· Give a sewing lesson and make a bean bag, hair tie, or purse.
· Create a daily schedule and put it on paper, so your kids can follow it
· Build an obstacle course
· Have a backyard treasure hunt,
· Create a chore chart
· Help your child plan and develop a business: lemonade stand, bake sale, car wash,
· Start a collection
· Read together
· Homemade play dough
· Give your child a small budget and plan a bedroom renovation
· Create a craft binder (from magazines) kids can flip through to choose from
· Start a postcard collection: write family and friends and ask them to contribute a postcard from their hometown.
· Let your children plan and make dinner
· Make tin can ice cream
· Sleep outside, look at stars and find constellations, tell stories, listen to nighttime noises, talk about the phases of the moon.
· Hold a “manners” tea party
· Let your child plan family home evening
Websites to check out:
http://www.Familyfun.com
http://www.kidsturncentral.com/summer/summerfun.htm
http://www.easyfunschool.com/article1147.html
http://www.greatschools.net/cgi-bin/showarticle/ca/640
http://www.activityvillage.co.uk/
http://www.thriftyfun.com/tf331468.tip.html
http://www.teachersandfamilies.com
http://www.pbskids.org
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